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生活中的5个球4 v' P& [. u+ E9 [
6 N! P2 C. O+ ^- s可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson: C7 S% ? P" ?" M
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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3 W! A* `3 t: p1 ]$ Q; Y你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。- F. Y1 Y# B0 v+ j
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。7 [% o3 S% E! k; B) |- \5 ~" C* j c4 h
4 m$ ?5 W- B' U) h- D4 |6 O2 t( R4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。+ m' K6 |0 a/ v) A- r3 X; ^
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。7 M( t, j0 a7 o) n0 U. j: h+ d
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。7 |+ u& U( H' }3 m/ ]' }2 M
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。5 a5 D) N* R( C
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。6 Q- i6 Q. q( ^2 X- L
8 `8 G+ S) m2 c' \+ t11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。7 @+ V: i. c# P) I k; C0 d
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0 A S/ ~' T# E# N4 x! `原文:
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Five Balls Of Life
+ k# ^ q! B2 P/ SThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
3 i; a- T$ y( F: c# eIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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$ @# }- S' N J" B( l0 w# ]Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
6 V: j: k( M/ m, w' QYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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1 F( [6 e8 z/ ZYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.- R6 p: u( W3 R' I! l3 |4 B
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?; }6 H2 J1 W& ]: M1 o0 i# \$ Y
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5 }+ K1 r( v% O( p( B) T- E1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.: c. O0 i1 {! Z3 L
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.4 ~- `8 t6 e( U. m, p, B
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.9 G" ~! C" ?4 B& r9 J
3 h6 ~2 R3 [2 Y5 v0 E4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.7 O- r6 P5 @7 L; w j7 l, j7 o# o$ X
6 Z) X6 J" c% z' U5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.* ?* l7 o/ X3 K7 @
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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9 M% l3 |: t. |* ~& G7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.4 _4 H4 c- @: _* k
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.' w( ` I5 o0 {, a9 m+ y
$ t$ x, i4 C! m$ Q9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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" F2 E0 d# B. M w; Q) Q6 h3 Q10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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, @" K6 T. O k% F& ^4 B12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.* `) y* l& N8 p
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