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生活中的5个球! ], }7 r3 m! {# s
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。, X3 F& Z$ k1 A$ e7 K
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。4 n- c8 u; c) D
/ `$ v* u8 W4 R: [你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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怎样才能做好?8 a8 L% {5 ~0 Z
1 V& O8 w( T, O" e4 i* d1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。/ T" V4 R- d2 r, Y4 K( F" M
" w; [( V0 \* C! l1 {& A2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。. @" \7 E4 Q. L0 \ a; M
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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( J0 h# R s* c, I- R4 `" F4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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\5 C4 W" E1 D. {& x5 g3 [: ?" |- o5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。6 p( j' K0 W0 T# ^8 m4 ]
; e' M& w' M$ m( o6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 ) _6 R1 N5 {( T- }& {* P. d- m
" C/ [& o, v, G0 ~+ ~/ Y4 J8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。6 i$ M4 {# d7 [, t. I9 I8 C
+ m9 \% Z7 f2 v, S- D+ i" L, A9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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# g3 k1 T, N# E" ~4 O10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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8 c) a u" v) I7 F. |11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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; q! T+ k2 F0 a6 N1 a+ i! D% x12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:7 O0 T+ J8 {' F# H$ V
% j& i6 X, N. G' `8 O( vFive Balls Of Life
! r, Z3 D) ~: Y1 w" ^: H, i3 bThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.) u r! ~, o. l& s+ I
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:7 B8 k/ e6 [/ M1 O: g
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
- B$ g8 g3 L1 H' M' T, J' e" W; LYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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6 d# k5 H' i0 X p2 P. N- g( nYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
' {$ ?9 B' B/ }" NThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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% i) o9 _% {1 F% V3 K6 l! Z1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you., \) i, {/ l9 ?, @
- }6 W9 l0 b% d% H' N3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.' F3 ?* w; g- U6 x
2 Z- I. d9 j9 u( J4 A; y" U# E4 j5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.. O4 O/ y, Z; e7 ]# c4 F1 X
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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! ~" E" {2 I6 E# [7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. X6 r. ]/ U+ L9 x) R
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings., ]/ w4 e' Q8 I
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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1 g: j0 ?0 y$ U+ n6 I: T9 O9 l10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.* K' a, H: c6 i" e6 T- k
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.2 S/ ^* _5 C' p: b! d
, j7 z9 w% Q |2 E$ U12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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